But I digress. I had a couple "dude" moments last night.
I went to see The Killdares, this awesome Celtic Rock band at Iron Horse Pub and, Dude, they totally ROCKED!!! I always have such a good time seeing them!! I can't wait for them to come back in a month for Hotter 'n Hell (Sat Aug 29 at the Finish Line Village).
My other "dude" moment was when I discovered this guy I've been flirting with for forever is.....engaged. Dude! What?! But wait, there's another "dude" moment here in somewhere. Oh yeah, that even in spite of his commitment to marry his girlfriend, he still wanted to take it to the next level. Dude! Seriously?! I'm heartbroken on so many levels. A) that I invested lots of (wasted) flirting time, B) that things didn't run the course I'd imagined/hoped & waited for, C) that I thought he was a pretty stand-up, good, decent guy, D) that his friends never clued me in, E) that I made the biggest "He's Just Not That Into You" mistake & gave him my number.
But really, it all boiled down to this gut feeling. Even before he told me about his impending nuptials, I just had this feeling like him & I wasn't a good idea. I can't tell you the times I've said, "I WISH I'd trusted my instincts!" I'm SO glad I listened this time. Didn't hurt that I was extremely sleepy & so kissing 'n stuff was SO off my radar. And as I laid in bed, alone (dogs don't count) very early this morning, I thought of that "How I Met Your Mother" episode where Ted says his mother always told him "nothing good every happens after 2am." SO true! Unless you're punching Korean Elvis in the nards : ) Dude, I love that show!
Oh and did I mention another guy I've been talking to, I found out is married! Dude, what the freak?!
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